Watch: How to Choose a Trustee for Your California Trust
In this short video, our Carlsbad estate planning attorneys explain how to choose a trustee in California to help ensure your wishes are carried out smoothly and your loved ones are protected. For a deeper look at what trustees are responsible for, read our full guide: What Is a Trustee? 6 Powerful Duties That Shield Families.
Key Takeaways
- What a trustee actually does
- Who should you pick — family, professional or hybrid?
- Questions you should ask your prospective trustee
- How to choose a trustee for your Caliornia Revocable Living Trust
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Why these takeaways matter to Californians:
In California — and particularly in San Diego County where families often combine significant assets, real estate and multigenerational planning — your choice of trustee can mean the difference between a smooth transition and a costly, drawn-out dispute. By preparing ahead, you give your family confidence, protect your legacy and reduce stress.
Choosing the right trustee is one of the most important decisions you’ll make when creating a revocable living trust. Your trustee will be responsible for managing your assets, distributing them to your beneficiaries, and carrying out your wishes after you pass away or become incapacitated.
This short video from Opelon LLP breaks down what a trustee does and walks through seven practical tips for selecting the right person or entity. Below, we’ve summarized the key takeaways along with additional guidance for California families.
What Is a Trustee?
A trustee is a person, bank, or corporate entity that holds legal responsibility for managing trust assets on behalf of the beneficiaries. The trustee is appointed by the trust creator (also called the grantor or settlor) and is legally bound by a fiduciary duty to act in the best interests of the beneficiaries.
A trustee’s responsibilities include:
- Investing and managing trust assets prudently
- Distributing income and principal to beneficiaries according to the trust terms
- Making decisions about trust property as necessary
- Keeping accurate records and providing accounting to beneficiaries
- Filing any required tax returns for the trust
In most California revocable living trusts, you serve as the initial trustee during your lifetime. If you’re creating a joint trust with your spouse, both of you typically serve as co-trustees, and the surviving spouse becomes sole trustee after the first spouse passes or becomes incapacitated.
The critical question is: who takes over after that? That’s your successor trustee.
7 Tips for Choosing a Successor Trustee
1. Consider the Complexity of Your Trust
If your trust is straightforward, for example, a single property and a few financial accounts, a responsible family member or trusted friend may be a good fit. However, if your trust involves business interests, multiple properties, digital assets, or complex tax planning, a professional trustee or trust company may be the better choice.
2. Evaluate Age and Health
Choose someone who is likely to outlive you and remain capable of fulfilling their duties for the duration of the trust administration process. A trustee who is your same age or older may not be the most practical choice.
3. Confirm Willingness and Availability
Serving as a trustee is time-consuming and can be stressful. Before naming someone, have a direct conversation about whether they are willing and available to take on the role. Not everyone is up to the task, and an unwilling trustee can create delays and conflict for your beneficiaries.
4. Assess Qualifications
Consider your candidate’s financial literacy, experience managing assets, and ability to make decisions in the beneficiaries’ best interest. If you’re considering a professional or corporate trustee such as a bank, research their track record, reputation, and fee structure before making a commitment.
5. Watch for Conflicts of Interest
If a family member is both a beneficiary and the trustee, potential conflicts can arise. For example, a trustee-beneficiary may be tempted to make distribution decisions that favor themselves over other beneficiaries. In these situations, appointing a neutral third party — or using a professional trustee — can prevent disputes.
6. Communicate Your Wishes Clearly
Don’t just name a trustee in your trust document and hope for the best. Sit down with your chosen successor trustee and discuss your expectations, goals, and specific wishes. This includes how you want assets distributed, your preferences for healthcare decisions, and how to handle any unique family dynamics. A trustee who understands your intent can carry out your plan more effectively.
7. Name a Backup
Always name at least one backup successor trustee in case your first choice is unable or unwilling to serve when the time comes. Without a backup, your beneficiaries may need to petition the court to appoint a trustee — adding cost, delay, and uncertainty to the process.
Individual Trustee vs. Professional Trustee
| Factor | Individual Trustee | Professional Trustee |
|---|---|---|
| Cost | Usually free or minimal compensation | Annual fee (typically 0.5%-1.5% of trust assets) |
| Personal knowledge | Knows the family and dynamics | No personal relationship with beneficiaries |
| Expertise | Varies widely | Financial and legal expertise built in |
| Availability | May have competing obligations | Dedicated to trust management |
| Conflicts of interest | Possible if also a beneficiary | Neutral third party |
| Continuity | May predecease or become incapacitated | Institutional continuity |
For many California families, a combination works well — naming a trusted family member as trustee with a professional advisor or trust attorney available to guide them through the administration process.
Frequently Asked Questions About Choosing a Trustee
Yes. In most California revocable living trusts, the grantor serves as the initial trustee and retains full control of the trust assets during their lifetime.
Yes. You can name two or more people to serve as co-trustees. This can provide checks and balances, but may also create disagreements. Make sure your trust document specifies how disputes between co-trustees are resolved.
Yes. As long as you have legal capacity, you can amend your revocable living trust to change your successor trustee at any time.
Absolutely. Your successor trustee should know they’ve been named, understand the role, and know where your estate planning documents are stored.
California law allows trustees to receive “reasonable compensation.” For family member trustees, this is often waived. Professional trustees charge fees that should be disclosed upfront.
Get Help Choosing the Right Trustee
If you’re unsure who to name as your successor trustee, write down the names of potential candidates and bring them to your consultation. At Opelon LLP, we walk every client through the trustee selection process during our drafting meetings to make sure your choice aligns with your family’s needs and the complexity of your estate.
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This article provides general information about California estate planning and is not legal advice. Laws change, and every person’s situation is different. Consult with a qualified California estate planning attorney about your specific circumstances.
Author: Matt Odgers, Esq.
Founding Partner, Opelon LLP
J.D., Thomas Jefferson School of Law | B.A. Political Science, Purdue University
California State Bar #290722 | Best Lawyers: Ones to Watch 2026
Last Updated: April 2026
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